Carbon 14

For a guy who spends so much time single and alone, I sure spend a lot of time thinking about human relationships. Here are my struggles pondering the struggle of being with.

2015

Falling in Love for Dummies

Falling in love means looking forward to becoming someone else with someone else.

How to Fall in Love in Four Easy Steps

Step 1) Click this link. Step 2) ... Step 3) Profit. Step 4) Love.

2014

The Hunt

I do not want to capture; I have no desire to catch. It’s not because I’m bad at it; it’s because I don’t value those relationships.

2008

Oh What A Tangled Web We Weave

Sex is not sinful. There are however conditions where sex is an affront to God. He spells them out in Leviticus 18.

2007

Look Ma, No Kids

Why get married if you’re not going to have kids?

The Statics of Us

I killed it. A beautiful newborn. I simply choked the life right out of it. I put it out of my misery.

2006

Back To The Fuwture

I've been waiting for years for the perfect blog to use that lil' gem of a title.

The Politics of Desire

Thanks Steph for opening my eyes to the bigger question about desire.

The Politics of Attention

Rough thoughts on attention, desire, and lust.

The Psuedo-science of Dating

Ever wonder why I spend a lot of time talking about first dates?

Dating Dues and Donuts

I'm about the worst person to give dating advice ever.

Balance Beam

The women I know these days don't know the first thing about being attractive.

2005

Garlic Wings

I always used to say "Every woman wants to own a man."

Pepe le Fuw

This story starts with a phone call.

2004

Nice Guys Don't Even Finish

By request, a little late night blogrification on the perils of being a nice guy.

Fuwjax's Rules For Happy Healthy Dating

Well, not so much for happy healthy dating, more for a happy healthy first date.

So Is There a Fuwjane?

Nope. No Fuwjane, no Fuwjill, no Fuwjaniqua.

I wanna date you like a paleontologist with a petrified tyrannosaurus femur

I was in an anti-relationship one time.